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Thursday, February 23, 2006

A long and complicated twist and chain of events led to this post. Nonsensical to most, therefore I ask for your forgiveness for those reading but weren't involved and don't be too quick to judge.
Not like a lot of ppl will be reading anyway...
Food for thoughts :)

Communication is the key, and communication is what you two, or all of us in the group lacked. Which, not surprisingly, caused the crack in the friendships? IMO, if there's a problem, there's no harm in sharing it. Its like a huge brick wall that shouldn't be there in the first place. What are friends for anyway?

I know some of you think that your problems are yours alone, and if possible, don't want to drag people who are totally unrelated into it. Well, that’s mature and sweet of you to think that way, but that's pretty naive IMO.

I’ll always remember this line from my sec school English teacher. ” Its your right to swing your arm as much as you like, but once it hits someone, You are infringing on other’s rights.”

What I wanted to say is, eventually people will get dragged in, no matter what, someway or another. Might as well.

I always have a stand to try not keep anything from anyone. If ppl at least bother to ask, I'll answer. At least as much as i could. Not like I’m gonna laugh and start spewing random insults at your problems. I believe I’m sensible enough to know when the right time to joke is. Heh :P

What i don't really see fit is, yes you have a problem. BUT, you can't expect ppl to understand you and give way IF you don't explain what’s wrong blahblah.. Yes, expectations again.

I know of people who just keep quiet and try to give in and keep it all to themselves, and when things start going wrong, others wonder just what the hell went wrong BECAUSE all the way, their impression was, YOU like it, that’s why you came. You all should know who I’m talking about. You get my point, but that’s beside the point.

People will be there to offer a hand. But if you shun that hand, coldly even, what would they think? If you’re that headstrong, then don’t cry over it when you look again, but see that hand gone.

Sometimes, I swear, all that needs to be done is for ppl to open their golden mouths. All might not be as bad as YOU ARE SPECULATING. So instead of speculating about what they MIGHT be thinking, just go and talk it out! For goodness sake! Think so much in your head but in the end its all just your opinions which might not even be true. Then get all upset over it.Zzz

Being a friend, all I can do is to be understanding, but that’s also something that you can do too. Or am I wrong?

Dear Friends
Wishing...; 2/23/2006 12:13:00 AM

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